For Caregivers • Support for Parents

Mum/dad is 80 and insists they'll clean the grave themselves?

Help parents without conflict or guilt. Order cleaning as a gift — they'll still visit, but someone else will do the heavy work.

Do you recognize these worries?

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Parents carry heavy buckets and brushes

They're 70, 80 years old. Their backs, knees hurt. But they won't admit it and don't want help.

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Long trip to cemetery is exhausting

Tram, bus, walk through cemetery. In heat or rain. It's too much.

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You're afraid mum will fall or faint

You don't want drama. But parents say 'I can manage' and do it anyway.

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You feel guilty for not helping

Living far away? Working? No time? It's not your fault — but the guilt is there.

Now you can help without conflicts and drama

Parents will still visit the cemetery — but someone younger will do the heavy work:

  • Order as a gift for parentsSay: 'Mum, I want to help so you don't have to carry heavy buckets'. It's support, not attacking their independence.
  • Parents can still light candlesYou're not taking anything away. Just giving the hard part (scrubbing, carrying) to someone else.
  • Photo report for peace of mindSee the grave looks beautiful. Parents can also see photos and confirm.
  • No drama, no conflictsThis isn't a hospital or care home. It's just grave cleaning. Gentle help without offense.

How to suggest it to parents without offense?

Don't say: 'You can't manage anymore'

Better say: 'Mum, I want to help. This will be my gift for you and for grandma/grandpa. You'll save energy and I'll feel better.'

Suggest 'on trial' once

Say: 'Let's order once and you'll see how it looks. If you don't like it, go back to the old way.' Low barrier = less resistance.

Show the photo report

After first cleaning parents will get photos. They'll see the grave looks beautiful and it really helps.

User Reviews

Early Adopters Are Already Waiting

User photo Michael Smith, London, UK

Michael Smith, London, UK

Excellent service for maintaining my grandmother's grave in Warsaw. Living in the UK, it's impossible to visit regularly, so this platform gives me real peace of mind.

User photo Sarah O'Connor, Dublin, Ireland

Sarah O'Connor, Dublin, Ireland

Made it so easy to care for my family's graves from abroad. My siblings in Boston and I can finally coordinate grave care for our parents at Powązki Cemetery.

User photo David Johnson, Manchester, UK

David Johnson, Manchester, UK

I've been looking for something like this for years. Being able to order flowers and cleaning services for my grandfather's grave without flying to Poland is incredible.

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